Tuesday, August 16

In-security....

He loved her very much. He found her to be very caring. He knows it is she who will understand him. He knew she always listened to him. He knew she loved him a lot. He knew at any time, any day anywhere she will come there to help him. But at times he felt little bit in-secured. He found her developing a friendship at cost of him. She made him convince it is not like that. He believed her. But deep in his heart, a tincture of that in-security feeling was there, buried but smoking out.

Whenever they used to fight upon this matter she always did say, “I never change my priorities in relationships.” But he started feeling she does. That too, at his own cost; something, which he never can afford to adjust. Every day, every talk do ends in verbal fights. Then sleepless nights of mental torture. Once felt insecured, its difficult to regain the original charm in that relationship.

8 comments:

musings (m000nie) said...

hey vinu hi ur rght here...

but this is not why i m visiting ur blog... i read ur comment on keshis blog... about ur dad... i know saying i m so sorry abt this is not going to get things right... but i know what u must b going thru.. u know my dad n ur dads case is very similar... only that today ur dad is still fighting cancer n my dad fought cancer for 4 mths n expired... hugssssss to ur dad vinu.. he so much reminds me of my dad... all the best to him... :)

Keshi said...

so right there Vinu...the feeling of insecurity wrecks r'ships n u can never have that freshness of it again. The root cause of insecurity is doubt.

The Buddha stated this abt Doubt:

There's nothing more dreadful than the habit of doubt.Doubt separates people.It's a posion that disintegrates friendships and breaks up special relations.It's a thorn that irritates and hurts, it's a sword that kills...

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Vinu n m000nie HUGGGGGGGGGGGGGZ! I luv u both n I know ur strong...ur dads r amazing ppl 'cos they brought into this world 2 brilliant n beautiful souls that I have ever come across...

k000kie.

Kroopa Shah (Kr00pz) said...

Ahh relationships. I will not comment on those- it messes me up. But yes, my prayers are with you and your family; good luck to your dad

Vinu said...

@musings..

Long live such genre...

@keshi..

Its indeed a sword that kills...thanx keshi for the quote...

@kroopa..

Thanx for ur prayers kroopa..

Dawn....सेहर said...

aah! vinu it really makes suffocated just by reading...can imagine the person going through this...uffff!!!

sad!

Vinu said...

@dawn..

its suffocating..Thats why we shudnt ever break a trust..

Anonymous said...

without trust no relation can survive...